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Hui
1 week ago
Forever the Pretty Huang Rong! I will always miss you! A fan from mainland China.
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Richard
2 weeks ago
Website ongeveer 9.000 keer bekeken per maand!!
Blij te zien dat ze niet vergeten is …. Ze word vreselijk gemist …!!
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Nguyễn Tích Thịnh
1 month ago
there are many rumors about barbara's spirit appearing, could you try going to hong kong to see if you can see barbara's spirit again?
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Rob
1 month ago
I don't believe in spirits, therefore I don't believe Barbara's spirit will ever appear.
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Nguyễn Tích Thịnh
1 month ago
Tin hay không cũng không quan trọng, đời người rất ngắn nay ông cũng 65 tuổi, nếu tôi là ông tôi sẽ rủ vài người bạn đến Hong Kong một lần thăm quê hương người yêu cũ cũng không mất mát gì.
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Nguyễn Tích Thịnh
1 month ago
Đó là câu chuyện của bài báo 2006 , giờ này chắc cô đã siêu thoát
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Nguyễn Tích Thịnh
1 month ago
Bài báo tiếng Trung dịch tiếng Việt nói cô ấy thường xuất hiện tại phim trường tvb, fan Barbara thì gặp cô trong giấc mơ, có fan thì thấy cô tận mắt và còn nói chuyện với cô. Theo lời fan Barbara thì cô nói cô không định tự sát mà chỉ làm vậy để doạ bạn trai.
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2 months ago
怀念你
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Sky Wong
2 months ago
I would like to pray to bless Ms. Barbara Yung Mei Ling (翁美玲姊妹) to rest in peace in haven with God's care.

Both Barbara and I are followers of God, Jesus, and St. Mary, and I have compassion for her.

Again, God Bless!!
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bug2413
4 months ago
如果有时光机,我一定飞去那晚去救你
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Sky Wong
2 months ago
That is why I encourage the public to learn "psychological first aid" to help other people.
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Blue Night
4 months ago
翁美玲,你怎么那么傻,你要是和黄蓉一样聪明就好了,真想让你看看21世纪的世界。现在这个时代有手机,有互联网,人们的生活更加丰富了,可惜你将最好的年龄留在了那个时候。
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zihuataneo
5 months ago
你好,bob。当我再次回看83版射雕英雄传时,发现翁美玲的演技和别的演员有着很大的不同,我不知道平时她的真实性格是怎样,但剧中她饰演的黄蓉,有着超越那个时代的真实性。剧中当郭靖和别的女孩在一起时,黄蓉会很难过和吃醋,看到翁美玲的微表情时,我甚至无法分辨这到底是剧中的角色还是真实生活中的映射。我想,生活中翁美玲的敏感,专一,渴望得到真诚爱情的想法在她所饰演角色的表情中也可以体现出来。从当时的情况来看,无论她留在香港还是英国,都急需一名心理医生,她的心理问题不是能靠自己解决的。在中国的视频平台B站上,我认识一名90万粉丝的主播,他的女朋友也是因为感情问题而闹着自杀,我觉得和翁美玲的情况很像很像,后来他们俩好像也分手了。最后,感谢你创建了这个网站,感谢你愿意和我们分享这么多翁美玲的故事。愿上帝保佑她。

Hello, Bob. When I reviewed the 1983 version of 'The Legend of the Condor Heroes', I noticed that the acting of Barbara was quite different from that of other actors. I don't know her real personality in life, but the role of Huang Rong she portrayed was very authentic beyond the era. When Guo Jing was with other girls in TV series, Huang Rong would get upset and jealous. Watching the microexpression of Barbara, I couldn't even tell whether it was a character in the show or a reflection of her real life. I thought that the sensitivity, emotional specificity, and desire for sincere love in her life could also be seen in the expressions of her roles. According to the actual fact, whether she stayed in Hong Kong or in the UK, she urgently needed a psychologist. Her mental issues could not be resolved by herself. On the Chinese video platform Bilibili, I know an anchor with 900,000 followers whose girlfriend also prepared to commit suicide due to emotional problems. I think it's very similar to the situation of Barbara, and later on, they seem to have broken up too. Finally, thank you for creating this website and sharing so many stories about Barbara with us. May God bless her.
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yy
6 months ago
you will always on mymind
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justaguest
7 months ago
芭芭拉安息,长眠剑桥
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DY
7 months ago
献花
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绿衣
7 months ago
永远的黄蓉!
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kai
7 months ago
郭靖,黄蓉,是80年代中国人最深刻的集体回忆。
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zhuzhu
7 months ago
The first star I liked.
I love her.
I love 《射雕英雄转》.
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Childhood Fan
10 months ago
Just came across your website a week ago and have finished reading your stories of Barbara. Thank you for sharing them and giving us an insight into her life that we would've never known.

Have you published your book yet? If so, what is the title and ISBN #? Would love to read the book.
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Rob
9 months ago
Hi,

I have not written my book yet, I am still working on it. And as I have little time it will take a long time till I finish writing.

Especially for Barbara fans I made another website on which I publish my research about Barbara's life. The website is called www.robradboud.com

The information on this website will eventually end up in the yet to be written book.
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Yee
10 months ago
小學時已經好鍾意亞翁,今日才發展這網頁,睇到好多相,還有印象睇過K100亞翁訪問張國榮,倆位是我的最愛偶像
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hk港剧港乐
10 months ago
永远怀念你
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Shihe
10 months ago
あなたの身がすでに死んだが、その模様やその声は永遠に私たちの記憶の中に刻まれてる。どうか、その世界におやすらかに過ごせるように願ってやまない。
永遠の蓉儿である翁美玲へ
2023/09/11 14:28
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Chak
2 years ago
請各翁友支持翁美玲的親人 勝出母校的[新星大獎]

詳情請看 翁美玲-Chak湛山子 微博: https://m.weibo.cn/1747284320/4786943675861434

投票網址(至7月8曰止): https://www.mullenlowenova.com/artist/christina-poon
歡迎轉載!為阿翁的親人出力,您做得到!
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Wantanee
2 years ago
Miss you forever 35 years that you pass away,bui I still miss you....love you forever....
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Bo
2 years ago
Hello rob, this message should have been sent a few years ago. I don't know how to say hello for a while and I'm worried that my English is not good enough to express my meaning, so I haven't been able to do so for a long time. There may be some semantic differences. I hope you can feel my sincerity. I'm a movie fan of Barbara from China. I'm very happy and moved to see Barbara's past and memories on the website, and I'm also very moved by your persistence and dedication over the past years, so that we can have more understanding and feelings about Barbara. In this fast-food era, I know how hard it is to feel and pay. Time flies, and coincides with this season, which inevitably makes people ecstatic. I don't know what attitude I should take to face this extremely extraordinary day for me. Even thousands of words, I can't tell all my thoughts. There is no need to meet or know each other. When thoughts and feelings meet in the time and space of history, this moment is self-evident and sufficient to prove everything. And I know that at this moment, Barbara will feel our most sincere blessing! I wish you and your family happiness and peace and all the best. I should have come yesterday, but I'm sorry for the delay due to common affairs. Please forgive me.
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Wantanee
2 years ago
Today is your birthday, We still miss you eventhrough you passed away more than 40 years。We will love you forever.
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Chak 湛山子
2 years ago
翁美玲的专书,限量印刷发行,欲购从速:

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出版日期:2021年5月

作者自序部分及心声:
当我有幸「遇见」翁美玲,我看到了大明星的美好年华,看到了小女生的爱恨情愁,看到了不甘人后,看到了希望、渴望与绝望。 当我用更客观的角度去看待翁美玲的一生,我想她是值得被记录的,不应该被岁月洗刷。

”五月之花”May flower美丽绝伦。 而翁美玲生于五月,谢于五月,令人太息,幸好多有惜花人(翁美玲传记香港繁体版出版:再次讲述她的故事,希望每一个人,都可以被自己温柔相待。)多谢支持
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丁力
2 years ago
I MISS YOU
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dazhang
3 years ago
i very love to read all these stories about barbara,thank you share them here,let us know more details.miss barbara for ever.
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Su
3 years ago
Goedemiddag Rob,

Vandaag was Mei Ling exact 36 jaar overleden en per ongeluk heb ik deze website gevonden. Ik ben heel blij dat ik zoveel mooie foto’s van haar kan zien toen zij nog heel jong was. Bedankt voor alles wat je hebt gedaan.

Mvg,
Su
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Lingling
3 years ago
Er is nog iemand in Nederland die ook aan haar denkt ! Zo leuk!真的有点激动!Mis haar….
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Su
3 years ago
Hoi,
Ik denk dat er vgenoege Chinese zijn die in NL wonen Meiling Meiling kennen en aan haar denken. Echter weten ze deze website niet. Meiling was en is nog steeds een lengend voor ons.
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Rob
3 years ago
Daar ben ik ook benieuwd naar :-)
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Rob
3 years ago
Hoi Su, wat leuk om een opmerking in het Nederlands te krijgen. Dat gebeurt niet vaak. Dank je wel voor je compliment en als je nog suggesties hebt voor deze website dan hoor ik ze graag. Hoe heb je deze website gevonden?
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Steven
3 years ago
Rob, We both are the husbands of someone. I would imagine it will take a lot to dedicate a memorial to his ex-lover. I believe you don't do it for your own good but to those ordinary people like myself, who cherish Barbara, to give us another view of her life. For such, I appreciate your effort and understanding of your family. 36 years have passed, from a teenager transforms into a father. Her departure is still painful.

On the eve of Barbara's 63rd birthday.
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Sam Lau
3 years ago
Thanks, Rob for sharing these stories of the early life of Barbara. I was a fan of her when I was 5 and is always intriguing to lose such a beautiful soul this early

With your side of story, it brings me closer to the REAL Barbara (Rather than what mainstream media portrayed her), it makes me feels I understand her more, who she was and what she was thinking. To be is still a beautiful story as I think she spent the happiest time with you in the college, Histon and London when you both still try to make it work to see each other despite the situation at the time. I am looking forward to hearing more stories if there are more updates and wish and your family good health and happiness during these times. All the best, Sam
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Rob
3 years ago
Thank you Sam that you took the effort and time to read all my stories and adding your comments.
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Elle
3 years ago
8. Lastly thank you for everything that you are doing for Babara. I am happy there is such a channel for fans to be able to continue memorizing her and get to know more about her. Four years ago I almost wanted to move to Holland but eventually I ended up going for Sweden. Now I am still hoping to accomplish my Europe dream. The near future plan is to be back and forth between US and Europe. Wish me luck and same to you ~
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Rob
3 years ago
Hello Elle, thank you for taking the time to write your comments and thoughts. I hope you will accomplish your dream and wishing you good luck
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Elle
3 years ago
7. There is a common western saying to describe such a status quo:”I love XXX; but I am no longer in love with him/her”. It is also the same status quo you have as you started your new life in Holland. You are in love with your family but you certainly still love Babara, which is why you are making this website and engaging with the readers. But it is another level of love and doesn’t reflect the reality or real life. It is higher than that. No one knows for sure what “Darling, I love you” means. It might not even refer to any particular person but a general reference.
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Elle
3 years ago
6. I heard her mom wanted her to go back to Hong Kong so that it will help her completely forget about you. She also hoped to use a new environment in order to help heal her broken heart and start forgetting. A new environment can be absolutely disruptive in achieving such effect. The old days are fond and maybe even have left deep marks in heart, but going back is probably no longer a reality or even feasible. Her circle has changed and probably so does her mentality.
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Elle
3 years ago
5. Or it would be you if her suicide was successful then. It is not about the boyfriends, careers or anyone else. A healthy strong person will be able to handle complicated situations and sustain. But she can’t…she is extremely fragile. The breakup with Ken and the work pressure are just triggers. Even she gets a commitment and gets married, something else could trigger it as long as the deep down issues are not resolved.

I personally think she has moved on with her life. There are great memories and maybe even heartbroken feelings, but it is a big life stage change to transform into a famous actress and a household name, which could also help her shift and make the memories fade or possibly feelings change.
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Elle
3 years ago
I must say you are the key person in uncovering the root cause reason of her suicide, which would otherwise probably be buried forever. As the family and close relatives are not here to tell everything, no one else knows her prior serial suicidal attempts. Yes she has psychological issues left over from the childhood experience and needed help but not many people in that generations know this well like nowadays. That is the real reason made her committing suicide with her deep insecurities. It will happen to another boyfriend if she dated someone else not Ken at that time.
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Elle
3 years ago
3. I was just around 10 and came back to my home town, I heard my cousins talking about watching The Condor Heros that night. They didn’t try to sell me anything, maybe they were even irritated that I am ignorant and haven’t heard of the TV episode. But somehow from their tone I sensed something unusual. When I watched the show I was instantly addicted. The show, the music is so extraordinary and it is like no other I have ever seen. I heard the actress has already committed suicide 2-3 years ago and her boyfriend Ken was a bad guy. So like everyone else we all blamed him for everything. This of course added more mystery to this show.
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Elle
3 years ago
2. These couple of months I just watched The Legend of Condor Heros twice again. It is true I can’t stand watching any other versions of it. The actors are unprecedented in the 1983 version and no one else can ever compete for surpass. As all the memory of the 1980s and 1990s Hong Kong TVs and films resurge and how legendary the Hong Kong entertainment industry used to be, I really asked myself and have to admit there is really no film/TV before or ever after that will impact me as much as this one just like many other Chinese, even with all the Hollywood entertainment I have watched. The memory and impact have etched too deeply.
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Elle
3 years ago
Hi Rob,

I RARELY, RARELY ever post anywhere on the forums or comment on social media. So this is not just another message from a random internet surfer. I am also not the type of person who will have a list of my favorite in any categories. I feel like there are lots of interesting varieties in anything so it would be hard to pick a favorite.
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Gulf
3 years ago
MISS Huang Rong, miss the passing of the days with her
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loveyou
3 years ago
我非常非常想念你,翁美玲,今年我继续欣赏你的蓉儿。
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zhangqin
3 years ago
每年都会看一遍射雕英雄传,每次看到黄蓉的时候,想到翁美玲都会泪如雨下,1985年5月14日那天,翁美玲发生了什么事??我真的很想知道那天翁美玲发生了什么事?
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xiao zhou
3 years ago
记得孩童时每到暑假一定会坐在电视旁观看83版射雕,里面的黄蓉当时觉得好漂亮又机灵,心里真的很崇拜!现在,暑期带着十岁的儿子重新观赏83版射雕依然感觉经典,无出其右者,我相信经典之作永远也不会过时,里面的蓉儿也永远不会被遗忘!最后祝愿阿翁不管在天堂还是转世都一切安好,找到属于自己的幸福!
Rob, Thank you for your great effort in archiving Barbara's life for her fans
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渾沌
4 years ago
嘗聞道:演黃蓉者,以翁美玲為天下第一,世間無出其右。今日觀《鐵血丹心》於汝帖網,到黃蓉出場,卒之明白此說之所由。
的而且確,翁美玲版黃蓉係最好睇嘅黃蓉。

Roy Batty曰:「I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhäuser Gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain. Time to die.」

人生如夢,幻象萬千。當年辭世,至今三十五年矣。
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Yan.
4 years ago
Thank you for remembering her, I will miss her forever
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Tina
4 years ago
Songs to Rob,

How much of the past is hard to remember,
How many grudges have gone with the wind,
Obsessed with both worlds
Heaven and earth may meet again?

I can't forget this evening or your face as you were leaving
But I guess that's just the way the story goes,
You always smile, but in your eyes,
Your sorrow shows..............


When I think of all my sorrow
When I had you there but then I let you go
And now it's only fair that I should let you know
What you should know,
I can't live, living is without you...............

Let everything go with the wind...................
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Rob
4 years ago
Thank you Tina
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Jade
4 years ago
Your stories made me relieved-Barbara was once well loved, cared and appreciated by a man. I used to be heartbroken when I imagined how sad she must've felt when her love for someone went unappreciated-I also came through that. In that bad relationship uncertainty and insecurity used to drive me crazy. I used to think I was probably the most jealous person in the world and I must've had problems. Then I came out of that relationship and met my now husband. He treats me with respect, care and love. He's helped me find myself-now I'm confident, happy and successful.
Barbara's been my favourite star. I told my husband about her when we first met and hoped he could watch LOTCH with me since she was a part of my life. Since he is an westerner and it was hard to find Eng sub (didn't think to look for DVD-silly me), we didn't get to watch til this year (15 years later)! My hubby now understands why I like Barbara so much, and said she was "cute, interesting and adorable"! I was so happy!
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Rob
4 years ago
Hello Jade,
It is nice to read that Barbara in a little way contributed to your happiness. She would have been pleased about this.
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Jade
4 years ago
She brought us so much happiness! I feel so lucky that my childhood was filled with her accompaniment. I miss her so much. Thanks for keeping her alive!
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Miguel García
4 years ago
Thank you very much for putting this website on again, is a wonderful site to keep Barbara´s legacy alive
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Ade
4 years ago
许多人说BARBARA对我这代人来说已经太过时了。但每当我想起她的生命时,我都感到很难过,同时也会疑惑,为什么这样一个值得拥有幸福的人,会这样悲伤绝望地结束她的一生。没什么别的想说的了,我对BARBARA的祝愿和Rob一样,希望她现在不管在哪,都找到了属于自己的幸福 。

Many people say Barbara is too old-fashioned for my generation. But I feel sad every time I think about her life, wondering why someone who deserved a happy life ended up in such sadness and hopelessness. Nothing else to say, I hold the same wish for her as Rob, I hope wherever she is now she has owned her own happiness. :sigh:

also thanks to Rob, this is really a great website even for non-Barbara-fans like me.
也谢谢Rob :-)
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Rob
4 years ago
Thank you, Adeline :-)
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RL
4 years ago
無意間發現這個網站, 你離開的那年, 我還沒出生. 但是我看見黃蓉的時候就深深地被你打動了. 據説金庸先生對你贊許有嘉, 一眼就相中了你作爲黃蓉的最佳人選. 而你也是在生於70,80 時代的一代人心中唯一認定的黃蓉. 至今沒有任何人比你飾演的黃蓉更深入人心. 35年已去, 相信你已經轉世了. 一切安好.
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Yh
4 years ago
写得真好
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bws
4 years ago
蓉儿:今天是你的生日,只想遥祝天国的你生日快乐! 有人说,思念是沉寂下来的情怀,是夜里难以成寐的清醒,是有着慵懒阳光午后的神伤,是独行时的惆怅,是醉饮时的娇嗔,是明日复明日的渴望。而之于你,阿翁,你就是一转身挥袖而去时留下的那缕清香,好淡好纯,缭缭绕绕挥之不去,无需想起,又何从忘怀。
你离开那年我才7岁,从初见伊始,我并不知道,我会放不下你35年,或许更久,直到生命的终结吧。
我一直有着一个小小的愿望,就是可以去一趟英国,可以亲眼看看你的坟墓,可以亲手为你献上一束花……
  
在不远的将来,我坚信我一定会到遥远的英伦来看你,四十年、五十年……,我们这些翁迷们会一如既往地缅怀你、祭奠你,直至生命的终结。夜深了,人静了,对你的思念却久久不能平静,心中的伤痛稍稍有所缓和。人间没了你,思念和伤痛笼罩着我们。天堂没了你,上帝和天使将会哭泣。假如你重返人间,我们的生活将会更精彩!
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YH
4 years ago
Watched Legend of the Condor Heroes when in middle school. Barbara was the soul of the series. If there were were a perfect girl in the world it would have been her. Dreamed of having a gf like her. I’m sure I wasn’t alone.

Can’t believe it has been almost 40 years and she would have turned 61 in a few weeks. Can’t imagine what she would have been if she’s still alive. In my mind she is forever 24 and still the perfect girl from 37 years ago.

Thank you Rob for creating and maintaining this website.
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Josh
4 years ago
Thanks for creating this website. I really liked her on TV growing up and I just learned so much more about Barbara, including her connections to the UK and NL. Thank you for sharing all the memories of her and may she rest in peace.
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Jackie
4 years ago
I was 10 years old when I learn her death news, I still remembered the whole Hong Kong was in shock!

She was my favourite tv star at that time. Thank you for making this nice website for memories. Her life was beautiful!
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Gus
4 years ago
Great to see the website has been unrestricted again plus more! Can't thank you enough for such hard work to preserve her memory as well as sharing her every precious moment, so thank you again!
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Rob
4 years ago
Hello Gus, thank you, unfortunately the last year there is little new information published about Barbara's life, so this website will not change much anymore.
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Lingling
4 years ago
Heel toevallig kom ik op deze website. Wat mis ik haar erg.... Had toen nog over haar gedroomd. Dank voor het delen van de foto's!
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Rob
4 years ago
Hoi Lingling, dank je, het gebeurt niet vaak een bedankje in het Nederlands, wel leuk.
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Natalie
4 years ago
Barbara, I miss you forever, you are the angel in the heaven, you are the angel in the heaven, love !
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Billy
4 years ago
Dear Rob,
I am a movie fan of Barbara from China and I am very glad you had enjoyed your wonderful memory for all the fans. Those memory just like happened yesterday. I believe she did not want to be such kind of life which made her suffering during 1982-1985 according to your story. We both wish she would be happy and joyful in heaven,don't we?
yours sincerely,
Billy, a friend from distant EAST
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Rob
4 years ago
Hello Billy, I am sure that wherever she is, she be pleasantly surprised and happy that she is still loved by so many people.
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谢谢你
4 years ago
谢谢你Rob,谢谢你让我们看到了一个真实、快乐的蓉儿。
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Mysterious Z
4 years ago
Hi Rob,
I finally read almost all your articles on this web.
Just want to tell you thank you for this website and all your time and effort. You have a really good memory and a careful (maybe romantic) heart. Thank you for letting these stories and memories live on.

Best wishes and take care, I guess you already know who I am.
Dank je wel.

Yours sincerely,
Mysterious Z
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Rob
4 years ago
Thank you Z. Looking forward to reading your stories.
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